How to Become a Good and Godly Husband (Udemy.com)

Easy-to-apply principles that empower, strengthen, even save marriages!

Created by: Gil Stieglitz

Produced in 2017

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What you will learn

  • How to be the husband God is calling you to be.
  • How to love your wife in the ways she feels your love.

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Overall Score : 98 / 100

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Course Description

Men, your wife is not as mysterious as you make her out to be. She can be understood!

So many men go through their marriage believing they are doing a good enough job. But what we find is that men have little to no idea what really makes his wife feel fulfilled and joyful in the marriage. If you can get this right, she will become your biggest blessing. This course teaches seven keys to understand your wife. Youll learn how to keep her secure in your relationship, create a sense of teamwork, and nurture her needs. I think youll find that if you practice them, your marriage will go to a whole new level. Change is possible, but you have to learn what to do.

7 Marriage-Changing Principles (Based on the book Becoming a Godly Husband by Gil Stieglitz)

H-Honor: a woman must receive this to stay emotionally connected in marriage. Learn this primary way to change your marriage and meet one of the core needs of your wife.

U-Understanding: this is essential if a man is to understand the unique temperament, gifts, and abilities of his wife. God tells husbands to do something that culture tells us is impossible --understand your wife.

S-Security: this is key to a womans spiritual connection to her husband. Your wife needs to feel secure in your relationship in ways that you have most likely never thought about. Learn the four ways that are most likely to threaten your marriage.

B-Building Unity and Direction: this is the constant job of the man so that the pressures of life do not destroy the marriage. Your wife needs you to engage in your marriage, to lead in your marriage, but in very specific ways. Learn the four aspects of leadership that you need to supply that will be readily accepted and deeply appreciated.

A-Agreement: a system a man must establish and manage so that both husband and wife can enthusiastically support the decisions that are made. What do you do when you and your wife do not agree about something? Do you just fight it out and see who is still standing at the end? (NO!) Live out Amos 3:
3 and live together in harmony. Learn this principle and it will help you avoid fights and bring positive results in your marriage.

N-Nurture: a man must provide all that his wife needs to blossom as a person, mother, worker, friend, and wife. Your wife can blossom into this amazing vineyard of delight if you learn how to truly nurture her. You are the husbandman, the gardener, and what she needs is completely different than what you need.

D-Defender: what the man must clearly become or his marriage, family, and life will be left unprotected and often destroyed. God has asked you to protect your wife from those things that could destroy her. Most of the time we are not physically protecting our wife, but you still have to protect her. Learn the four common areas where your protection will make the greatest difference.
Who this course is for:
Husbands or those hoping to be married (again) someday

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Instructor Details

Gil Stieglitz

Dr. Gil Stieglitz is a prolific author, engaging speaker, and insightful pastor who has spent thousands of hours helping, coaching, and strengthening couples, men, and believers in Christ. Gil has written over twenty-five books on marriage, soul development, and spiritual warfare, including top-sellers Becoming a Godly Husband, Gods Radical Plan for Wives, and Marital Intelligence, as well as Mission Possible, Touching the Face of God, Spiritual Disciplines of a C.H.R.I.S.T.I.A.N.and more. His newest marriage book comes out in November 2019, Building a Ridiculously Great Marriage: Premarital and Marital Habits. Gil speaks to thousands of people each year about the wonders of Gods principles serving as Discipleship Pastor at Bayside Church, a dynamic multi-site church near Sacramento, CA. He is the founder of and on faculty with Principles to Live By, a nonprofit organization that helps people connect to Gods principles in everyday life. He and his wife, Dana, enjoy a ridiculously delightful life in Northern California. Gil has a heart for helping people become all God wants them to be. He believes a Great Life Is Great Relationships.

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By Juan Antonio Bernabeu on 7/22/2020

So far is very good!!! I am married, but I needed to hear this!

By Onur Hazar on 6/10/2020

Yeah great! beyond my expectations!

By Leo Walker on 6/8/2020

Helping me to see a lot about me and how I need to continue to apply the principles of God to my relationship not some of the time but always.

By Eric Cooley on 4/5/2020

Very impressed and I plan on revisiting this many times over in the future. Gil covers all the bases to lay (or rehabilitate) the foundations of a healthy, happy and functional relationship. I plan on practicing these 7 steps from here on out -- I only wish I had watched this sooner.

By Dean Wharton on 3/23/2020

extremely well done and valuable

By Harry Trautmann on 2/16/2020

Udemy has a lot of low quality courses, many good ones and some outstanding ones. This is an outstanding one!
It provides valuable insight and sound advice.

By William Hubbard on 2/10/2020

Amazing at explaining this. I have worked on many of these recommendations and it has been beneficial for our marriage.

By Kenny on 10/16/2019

Great teaching, easy to understand

By Brandon pope on 10/8/2019

This is really helping me out with me and my fianc cuz I really need to put her first and respect her and show her and I love her with all my heart and shes the live of my life.

By Charles Dupuis on 9/23/2019

I find this pastor to have a good grasp of the content. The course is laid out with organization that has been thought through, and I detect that he really wants to help men in their marriages. I haven't had the best models or examples to follow, and the course material here gives balance to areas that I've failed in and/or need improvement. He isn't one of the 'untouchables' - he admits his failures when applicable, which helps give me confidence to follow his advice. I highly recommend this course - thank you Pastor Stieglitz for putting this course together for guys like me!

By Jason Nottingham on 9/16/2019

Great course. I wish I knew a fraction of this material before. Maybe I would not be in the position I am in now. Everything she has been complaining about makes sense now.

By Emmanuel Tikili on 6/17/2019

Great information in a clear and concise way that I can follow.